Red Grace




"I’m not like the other girls", Claudia Gray

Excellent article. I always end up thinking this when I see reblogs like that. Female competition is a horrible, poisonous thing (that I’ve only recently gotten over engaging in, and I am much happier for it).

(via birdwithapeopleface) quoted,

"It saddens me to see girls proudly declaring they’re not like other girls – especially when it’s 41,000 girls saying it in a chorus, never recognizing the contradiction. It’s taking a form of contempt for women – even a hatred for women – and internalizing it by saying, Yes, those girls are awful, but I’m special, I’m not like that, instead of stepping back and saying, This is a lie.

The real meaning of “I’m not like the other girls” is, I think, “I’m not the media’s image of what girls should be.” Well, very, very few of us are. Pop culture wants to tell us that we’re all shallow, backstabbing, appearance-obsessed shopaholics without a thought in our heads beyond cute boys and cuter handbags. It’s a lie – a flat-out lie – and we need to recognize it and say so instead of accepting that judgment as true for other girls, but not for you."





Mindy Kaling, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (via bibliomatic) quoted,
"Teenage girls, please don’t worry about being super popular in high school, or being the best actress in high school, or the best athlete. Not only do people not care about any of that the second you graduate, but when you get older, if you reference your successes in high school too much, it actually makes you look kind of pitiful, like some babbling old Tennessee Williams character with nothing else going on in her current life."




THEORIES ABOUT THE UNIVERSE by Blythe Baird  (via thewastedgeneration) quoted,
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THEORIES ABOUT THE UNIVERSE



I am trying to see things in perspective.
My dog wants a bite of my peanut butter
chocolate chip bagel. I know she cannot
have this, because chocolate makes dogs
very sick. My dog does not understand this.
She pouts and wraps herself around my leg
like a scarf and purrs and tries to convince me
to give her just a tiny bit. When I do not give in,
she eventually gives up and lays in the corner,
under the piano, drooping and sad. I hope the
universe has my best interest in mind like I have
my dogs. When I want something with my whole
being, and the universe withholds it from me,
I hope the universe thinks to herself: "Silly girl.
She thinks this is what she wants, but she
does not understand how it will hurt.

"





Thomas E. Sniegoski, Aerie and Reckoning (via anditslove) quoted,
"You’ve got to use it, the pain. Use it as fuel to move past the torment, to the light at the end of the tunnel."




Ollie Renee Schminkey, ‘Boobs’ (via a-thousand-words) quoted,
"I am not trapped in my body.
I am trapped in other peoples perceptions of my body."





TheDailyPositive.com (via thedailypozitive) quoted,
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do."




Matthew Healy, The 1975. (via he4rt-out) quoted,
"I love sleeping to avoid problems."